Of course, they are not aware of it consciously. Most people really don’t understand themselves.
And that is the reason why they suffer a lot from negative emotions.
So how can someone get a better partner after a breakup?
Keep reading and you will discover the answer you won’t find elsewhere.
Understand your subconscious mind –
Your subconscious mind is a unique creature. It works 24 hours a day and seven days a week. It is responsible for sending you bad and good emotions.
The ultimate work of your subconscious mind is to keep you HAPPY.
Therefore, it sends you bad emotions whenever it finds that you are doing or not doing something which can bring happiness for you.
It sends the sad emotions of depression when it finds that you are not taking action to get the precious thing you lost.
It sends you anxious emotions when it believes that you might mess up. So it tries to make you aware of this so that you can take right actions to avoid messing up.
However, you don’t understand its signals, like most people. And your feelings about the situation go from bad to worse.
For example, a guy who hates the fact that he doesn’t have a job might try to forget about his feelings by drinking.
His subconscious mind sends him bad emotions so that he can take necessary action such as searching for a job across the road or developing new skills.
However, he does the exact opposite. Instead of spending time on searching for a job, he spends his time on drinking. Then his bad emotions become more unbearable.
The girl who hates to study becomes nervous when an exam approaches. Her subconscious mind tries to help her by sending her bad emotions of nervousness so that she become motivated to take actions such as studying hard to avoid getting bad grades.
However, she does lots of other things instead of studying hard, so she only grows more and more nervous as the exam draws nearer.
The one and best solution to get a better partner next time –
In the beginning of this post, I said that the ultimate goal of your subconscious mind is to keep you HAPPY.
It is still trying to keep you HAPPY by making you feel bad about your situation so that you can try hard enough to get your ex back.
At this time, your subconscious mind believes that you can be happy again once you get your ex back, because you were happy before.
So the key reason why are you experiencing so much trouble at this time is that YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND IS WORKING AGAINST YOU.
Your subconscious mind believes that you might not be happy without your ex at all. And that’s the reason why you have been experiencing so many bad emotions since you broke up.
Use the CONVINCE YOUR ‘S’ technique.
So what is the CONVINCE YOUR ‘S’ technique? Here the ‘S’ is for your Subconscious mind.
What you need to do right now is to convince your subconscious mind that IT’S OVER. Right now your subconscious mind is not working on your side. It’s just letting you feel bad so that you can try to get your ex back once again.
However, when you are 110% sure that you can’t get your ex back and that you can’t be happy without your ex, there is no need to suffer those emotions.
You just need to convince your subconscious mind that it’s over. That’s it.
Once you fully convince it that the relationship is over, then it will start working in your favor. This is called the CONVINCE YOUR ‘S’ technique.
Once your subconscious mind is convinced that the relationship is over, it will gradually withdraw bad emotions. It will understand that there is no need for them.
Furthermore, it will start recognizing your emotions. It will start making you alert for possible signals for a potential new relationship.
This is the key for getting better after a breakup.
If you don’t fully convince your subconscious mind that the relationship is over, it will always look back for the old relationship whenever you try to start a new one.
Moreover, it will always compare the new partner with the old one.
In this case, your old partner will always win the comparison. It will happen not because your ex was better, just because your subconscious mind will still hope for a reunion and it will still believe that you should fight for your old relationship so that you can become HAPPY again.
So no matter how many things you are doing to get new dates or to get over your ex completely, if you are not using the CONVINCE YOUR ‘S’ technique, you are not really going to get a better partner.
Your subconscious mind will always compare the new partner to your ex, and it will always let your ex win.
So you should immediately use the CONVINCE YOUR ‘S’ technique to full convince your mind that IT’S OVER and that’s it.
You will soon find someone better :-).
Now, put your comment below this post and let me know how many different things you have been done to find a better partner after the breakup.
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